or The Recipe for Despair
That's not easy. For some daring to fail it's unthinkable. Would you like your child like this? Get some insights into the psychological build-up of dare-to-fail failures. This will help you build up the perfect candidate out of anyone, even adults. If you dare to fail, of course! So, here are 10 rules to follow everyday:
- Rarely greet your child. When he says Hi, don't respond.
- When he/she walks in the room, don't look at him (never smile!).
- When he/she ask a question, pretend you are busy and don't respond.
- If he/she nags you, insisting, answer irritated: What do you want?
- Never praise him/her for anything good they did.
- In everything they do: always look for some imperfection to criticize.
- If you don't find any flaw, simply keep a sober face and don't say a word.
- Always compare him/her with another better-than-you child/person.
- Encourage apathy - sit still! - as the best behavior. Initiative is punishable.
- Never hug or empathize with your child – blame him for any pain he experiences.
The key is CONSISTENCY. Be sure to follow these everyday and the result is guaranteed: a person who will
never dare to cross the line and will always play on the safe side, because
failing is the worst that can happen to him/her. The slightest failure will be like a
slaughtering machine for their core identity. Trust me, they will make sure to
NOT DARE to fail.
So, now you know which strings to pull. Happy manipulation!
p.s Written in a sarcastic manner, this is the reality of many peoples’ lives who grow up in dysfunctional families, where they never feel truly loved and accepted, doing their best to cope. Growing up, these are people who lack the resilience needed to succeed in life, success being defined as a sense of fulfillment and peace about one’s life. They are great achievers, yet deeply unhappy inside. Nevertheless, there is hope for recovery, if they manage to find loving, healthy relationships, even if later in life, and learn to accept themselves unconditionally.
4 comments:
especially this is true in our moldova's families :(
Too many cultures too many families create an environment of negativity. I wonder how much greatness has been lost due to growing up in this kind of environment.
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Really! I'm so glad to hear I have inspired someone even. Thank you for all your comments.
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